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Paying attention to children is the obligation of parents, especially mothers. But, apparently, excessive attention is not good, even bad for children. Why ?
If a mother is so concerned about her child, of course the reason for love. We cannot blame such attitudes. But do you know, the impact if you over-pay attention? there is one thing that you must bear from this seemingly good thing, that is you have seized the child's freedom to develop self-reliance, joy, and supervision on himself.
Parents are the first generation who are responsible for the emotional lives of their children. But they are also responsible for other things. So, if the child is wrongly handled, the result may be that parents do not give their children sufficient space and time to build their character and conscience.
Tips that you need to try to make children strong, while making you free from the restraints of children:
1. Occasionally, ignore them
Not infrequently parents now especially a mother who does many things with her children. For example, accompanying their children to play, start swimming until playing music together. Togetherness like that really looks beautiful. But just so you know, this action has a weak side too. If parents are too involved in their children's lives, this can paralyze children's creativity. Children need to be left feeling bored, creating entertainment for themselves, and discovering new things themselves.
2. Let the child feel sad
It is important for children to also experience bad things, such as feeling annoyed, failing, or disappointed. Because by feeling these things, the child can learn many things. If your child cries because of "stumbling", disappointed because his desire is not fulfilled, or sulked by annoyance, let him enjoy his feelings. This applies to all children.
3. Just say "NO"
Indeed, words like "yes" and "allowed" every day can make children feel calm, secure, and strong. But, there is something that needs to be taught to the child that he cannot get everything he wants, that life is not always fair, and that "no", there must not always be a reason. Children need to learn that they are not the essence of life. They must meet all the needs of the family, parents, and others.
4. Let the child do his own homework
Your child comes up at eight o'clock at night, and says, 'Ma, I have homework, here.' Or at least he can do it but it's not right. This opinion is wrong. Parents need to let their children do their own homework and let them make mistakes. Because, if not, it means that you signal your child that they are unable to do it themselves.
Well that's how it was, my article about the bad effects of indulging children excessively, hopefully useful.
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